Someone sent this to our mail, and she needs your candid advice. I’m trusting you to help her out. Feel free to share your view in the comments box after reading.
What Age determines Marriage for a man or lady?
Must I really be rushing marriage because my mates and juniors are getting married? Do I have to push my boyfriend to see reasons to plan a wedding ceremony before he is ready to do so? Why do parents calculate age when it comes to marriage? Why can’t it be all about meeting the right person that brings happiness to you and vice versa?
I have the opinion that marriage should be decided when the happiness and peace between two people is beautiful and cannot be taking away or shared.
It isn’t all about LOVE.- No! No! No.
Trust, unity, peace, friendship, partnership, comfort and many others revolve in marriage to create a blissful relationship between the couple.
Everyone should strive to be married to their friend, their chat partner, their personal doctor, their cry buddy, their story teller, their prayer warrior, a partner that is everything in one. Some people will tell you that when you meet the right person, you would know! Really that sounds scary.
Do you just know by instinct or premonition? I seek answers to this. I fear that when you feel time is no longer on your side, your instincts may be compromised, and any available guy looks like the next big thing.
Personally, I believe that marriage is a sacred thing that ‘children’ should not get into. It’s for the matured minds and people willing to sacrifice anything and everything. Someone once told me that girls should actually cry very hard when they are getting married because asides been happy with their partner, they are trading the option of ever making or taking decisions on their own. This has also contributed to my fear in getting married.
But when age is not on my side, and the pressure to marry is high, what should I do?