The focus for today is upon WOMEN. I believe a dedicated and disciplined wife has won half the battle of keeping her home together, hence we decided to share these 30 commandments for relationship and marriage happiness with women on our mind. There is time for everything, so men can look forward to some interesting tips we will be sharing in subsequent weeks, but today let’s look at how to get marriage happiness from the angle of the women.
Below are the outlined 30 Commandments for Relationship and Marriage Happiness – for women. Please NOTE that the use of the word ‘commandments’ does not make it a definitive rule, it is just based on principles we believe make for sustainable marriage happiness between couples.
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. You are each other’s keeper.
3). Never use attitude and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasting wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom.
12). Be wise in answering for your husband in public opinion polls, it is advisable to let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never raise yourself above him. Its always teamwork.
21). Do not judge your husband; it does not say much about who he is but says more about who you are.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like less cooked food?, try to suit your husband’s taste.
24). Never be too demanding from your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. Show a nice attitude to your husband always.
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family.
It is believed with strong convictions that these commandments will help women gain marriage happiness and sustain the couple for as long as they live.