My friend, Rita wanted this guy so bad and wouldn’t give up until he noticed her. After countless sleepless nights of trying and failing at methods that should get this dude, I decided to step in *pops collar* as a *clears throat* COACH that I am. I thought it right to share with you as well. Please enjoy my ideas about how to get anyone attracted to you.
Nota bene: Please what you are about to read is not MAGIC. It may not work for all, but it sure works for most. It’s just what should make you physically attractive.
I noticed Rita wasn’t exactly attractive as a person. I had to make her understand that physical attraction makes people want to talk to you; it makes hot guys, babes and all beautifully made people want to have a conversation with you.
You should however note that, physical attraction is not a guarantee that you will have a better love and relationship life. That will depend on your inner beauty and in your attitude to life.
The following are my tested and trusted ways to get anyone attracted to you.
The Right Fragrance
The use of fragrance to enhance the way you smell or to create a unique kind of scent everywhere you go will give you attention. And even those who do not bother to look at you when you enter into a place will be forced to look at you because of the nice scent coming from you. Men should use strong perfume and for women, soft and mild perfume will do the magic for you.
Maintain Eye Contact
It takes only a confident guy or lady to look into a person’s eyes and maintain eye contact. You don’t need to stare at people or look directly into their eyes for too long, but holding the contact for 2, 3, 4 second speaks much about your confidence. Those that are shy will look away immediately even before a second and many people will perceive you as lacking in self-confident. Make strong eye contact and look straight into their eyes as you speak with anyone, it creates more attraction especially if you’re speaking to an opposite sex…lest I forget, it makes you look hotter.
Stand up straight and walk tall everywhere you go, it will make you look attractive even if you’re shorter than the people around you at a particular place. Walking tall with a good posture will help you get people’s attention, it shows that you’re confident and have no fear of any situation around you.
Get a good night rest at least 7 hours every night, and avoid eating late at night. Surround yourself with positive people and do away with people that only see the negative side of life. When you feel positive about life, you’ll start to feel more positive about yourself and your self-esteem will rise. Don’t skip your breakfast because it is the most important meal in a day. Eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables and your skin will start to glow with a naturally attractive radiance as long as you keep doing it. Always remember that your charming appearance will attract those you like to your life.
Wear Cloth that Fit
The era of putting on baggies or oversize wear has gone. These days, people go for clothing that makes them look smarter, even than the way they actually are in reality. You will attract and look hotter if you wear stuff that look good on you which will also accentuate your assets (in a mild way abeg o).
Stop Comparing Yourself
Comparing yourself with someone else out there will only make you look second to the best. You’re created with your own uniqueness that no one can be compared with. What you have, some other people don’t, and they covet being in your position. Work around your flaw and be the best you can possibly be. Stop the comparison. It is only those that love who they are that can attract beautiful people like them into their life.
Physical attraction is all about the details. Dress well, groom yourself and have a shower regularly. Clean, supple hands and a well groomed appearance always make you seem more likeable and attractive.
Physical attraction is definitely not the major consideration for a relationship that will be successful but it plays a major role in the sense that, it is the first criteria that will initiate your coming together either as friend or couple.